Contemplation: Revisit Your Favourite Holiday Destination!

In The Secrets of Mindful Beauty we share many mindfulness and meditation techniques that can enhance our lives. One of these is contemplation. Not only will it help you appreciate where and who you are right now, it can also help you make the most of your holidays, by appreciating where you’ve travelled, time and time again.

Contemplation is a practice similar to meditation, although it has some differences. Meditation requires some focus; we concentrate on our breath, or on a mantra or prayer, or perhaps a particular picture or symbol. In contrast, contemplation lets our thoughts roam free. It means to ‘survey with the eyes or the mind’. The word contemplate comes from the Latin contemplari which was linked to the word templum or temple, in which an augury or oracle resided. An augury was someone who could divine signs and symbols. Contemplation accesses the temple of your mind through the temple of your body.

Contemplation is a useful complement to mindfulness. It may appear to be doing nothing, when you’re actually doing a lot. It can seem no more than day-dreaming. Rather, it is a way of widening your eyes to what you see. In Sanskrit, this is known as dharma – opening ourselves to the world and what we experience.



Contemplari: Reflective Visualization Exercise

Try this visualization technique. This is a magical, creative process you can carry out as often as you wish.

Close your eyes. You may be standing, seated, or lie down for this exercise. Allow five to ten minutes. Bring into your mind the most beautiful place you have ever seen. It might be somewhere you’ve visited; it might be somewhere you saw in a movie or on TV that you want to visit. It might be mountains, woods, the beach, a starry sky, or a city skyline. It might be far away, it might be near home. Go there. In your mind, make a visit.

Contemplate this interior place. Allow yourself to fully experience it. Look around, breathe the air. Engage your senses. See what is around or in front of you with both your eyes and your mind by cultivating a state of calm, of relaxed receptivity. Glance in front of you, sideways, look over your shoulder. Gaze around, breathe the air. Stop and stare. Engage your senses – take note of what you see, scent, hear, touch and smell. Pay attention to every detail, but without strain. Stand back and take in the whole. Relax. Contemplate your surroundings for as long as you like: let its beauty become part of you.

Can you still visualize your surroundings? Through contemplation, re-view what is still around you although you can’t see it with your physical eyes. Retain your state of calm, of relaxed receptivity. Allow yourself to fully experience your surroundings again. Look around, breathe the air. Engage your senses – recall what you can see, scent, hear, touch and smell. Linger for as long as you like: let its beauty become part of you.

Open your eyes. Go to a mirror. Allow the beauty of your contemplations to remain expressed in your eyes, mind, face and body.  

Next time you visit somewhere or see something beautiful, contemplate it. Create a picture in your mind, for further contemplation. There’s no limit to the beauty you can contemplate outside and inside you. It is always accessible, always there. You are part of the world’s beauty. It is part of you.



Use a favourite holiday photo to prompt your contemplation. One of my favourites is Cassis, in the South of France. Being able to visit it again is beautiful!

 

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Dr Elizabeth Reid Boyd has degrees in psychology and gender studies. She has taught interpersonal, communication, and personal development skills including meditation, self-awareness, self-care and mindfulness at the university level for almost two decades. She writes fiction as Eliza Redgold.

 

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11 comments:

  1. For me, imagining our 1970 trip to Hawaii can drain every bit of stress. Almost as good as being there again! (Almost.)

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  2. I love this! I absolutely find myself escaping to the beach in Mexico (or, really, any beach). Sounds like the perfect addition to my meditation :)

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  3. Hawaii - just the word can drain stress! That trip sounds great, and still going strong!

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  4. So glad you like it! Beaches are perfect for this process - though I've not been to Mexico. Lucky you! Enjoy revisiting.

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  5. This was fascinating, Dr. Boyd. I really enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

    'Lo, Nas:)

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  6. I can't tell if my comment went through so this may be a repeat:)
    I really enjoyed this post, Dr. Boyd. Thanks for sharing.

    Hello, Nas;)

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  7. This sounds like a great exercise. It certainly forces you to be aware of your surroundings and use all of your senses to experience it.

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  8. What a great post. I try to meditate and contemplate every day. :)

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  9. Oh I am much better with contemplation. lol My mind goes where it wants to go most times. lol

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